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The Surgery: Wasn’t as bad as I thought

July 1, 2015 By Bukola Oriola

2015-06-22 15.05.58 This is the last of a four-part article about my experience with oral surgery. In case you missed the first, second, and third parts, you can read them first,  Dental Death Sentence,  The teeth cleaning, chopping, sharpening tools, scary experience, and The consultation, cry baby, I want my teeth.

When I was making the appointment with the urgent care clinic, I was asked to come in early because it was on a first come, first serve basis. Grandma Annette and Grandpa Jim picked me up one hour early for a thirty minutes’ drive. We arrived at the clinic on time and I checked in. I was called in and was given a pair of safety glasses to put on. The nurse, Christy (I think) examined my mouth and said, “I think you have to go to the other side of the hall to do a procedure. We can’t take out the tooth.” I told her that I was supposed to have two teeth extracted – number 31 and 32.

She said well, “Let the doctor come and take a look, then we will decide.” I told her my ordeal and the miserable journey I had embarked upon as a result of my dental dilemma. She said, “We will figure something out, but I don’t think we can do it.” She added, “You don’t have to be in pain. I will follow you to the other side to talk to them.” Christy was really nice. It was like holding my hands all the way. When the doctor came in, they both decided that I had to go to the Oral and Maxillofacial section. Christy took me across the hallway. I signaled to grandma and grandpa in the waiting room that I would be back as Christy took me across the hall to the Oral and Maxillofacial section of the clinic.

The front desk staff said, “We have an appointment for you in August,” but I said, “I am in pain and one part of my head seemed like it does not belong to me.” Then she turned to Christy to ask, “Is there swelling around the gum?” And, Christy said, “Yes, it is really looking bad.” Then the front desk staff said, “Let me see if there is something available for you this afternoon. Go have a sit.” I was a little relieved that the teeth will finally be vacating my mouth and never to return like a lost ship in the deep sea. I thanked Christy as she went back to the urgent care section of the clinic.

I sat for a few minutes, then, I quickly ran to the urgent care section to beckon grandma and grandpa to come with me. They came and sat with me. I told them the new development. Grandma was pretty vocal about her happiness that I would be free from pain.

I had been told that I was not going to go through the procedure asleep and that I was going to feel when they were working on me. I consoled myself with my C-section experience almost nine years ago when I had my son. I was not put to sleep, I could feel the pressure but not pain during the procedure. So, I thought to myself, “It is going to be like that. I will not feel the pain but the pressure.”

When my name was called out by the nurse, I followed her to the back room, filled paperwork, and was made to watch the video that I had seen during my consultation a few months ago again. According to her, it was compulsory for a patient to watch the video. I had to also append my signature that I watched the video. Afterwards, she was going to take me to another room for Panoramic X-ray. But I quickly said that I had given them a disc. She was surprised because she had not seen it. The doctor that was going to the procedure, Dr. Harold, came in. She told him that I said that I had brought a disc.  Dr. Harold said, “Okay, let me go upstairs and check.” Then, the nurse asked if she could go ahead or standby, he said, “Standby.”

She took me back to the room where I laid on the dental bed. Another nurse joined her and while she was taking my vital signs, Dr. Harold came in with the disc. He popped it in the CPU and a picture of my entire mouth appeared on the screen. Turning to me, he said, “I will give you local anesthesia, so you will not sleep, but you will be fine.” I said, “Okay.”  He brought out a very long syringe. I have never seen such a long syringe before. He injected around the teeth and went into my jaw. He said, “You will feel a pinch.” I think that statement was right for the injection by the teeth but not for the jaw. After administering the anesthesia in the jaw area, I felt my mouth moving to one side of my ear. Dr. Harold stepped out saying, “I will be right back.” Then, one of the nurses asked, “How do you feel?” With my now babble speech, “I said, I feel that my mouth is moving to this side” using my hand to show the side with which my mouth was moving. She smiled and said, “That is how you should feel.”

Shortly after, Dr. Harold came in and said, “Open your mouth. You will be fine.” As I opened, something was put in my mouth to keep it ajar while the procedure was on. I closed my eyes praying in my mind and calling Jesus with my inner voice and I felt the hard pressure on my gum. When I felt the pull or hard shaking, I held on tightly to my cell phone and screamed Jesus with my inner voice.

All of a sudden, Dr. Harold said, “Bite hard.” I was like, “Is it done.” He and the nurses chorused, “Yes.” With my mouth still on one side, I said,“Thank you so much. That didn’t take that long.” They said, “Yes.” After watching the video before the procedure, Dr. Harold had asked if I had any question and my question was about the length of the procedure. The video said about an hour but Dr. Harold assured me that it was not going to be that long. He was right. It took half the time – only about thirty minutes and it was done.

I had made a special request. I wanted my teeth. He agreed to give me my teeth but the nurses warned me against exposing it publicly because of germs, I promised that if she put it in a ziplock bag, I was going to keep it in my bra until I left the premises. I wanted them because, they belonged to me, plus, I wanted to use it to encourage my eight year-old son to brush his teeth regularly. Dr. Harold thought it was a good idea to use it to encourage my young son to keep good dental hygiene.

When I took the teeth out of the zip lock, it was stinking like a decomposed corpse. Well, I cleaned it and dipped in rubbing alcohol. I showed it to my son and friends. Indeed, the wisdom tooth did great damage to the tooth beside it. It had dug a big hole underneath the tooth and I felt relieved that my dental nightmare was over.

At the end of the whole process, I assessed my experience and thought; it wasn’t a bad procedure after all. I was just been paranoid for nothing. I will like to use my experience to encourage anyone out there to go for regular dental examination, because, I was told that if it had been examined earlier, the wisdom tooth would have been taken out before it damaged the tooth beside it. More so, it wasn’t a death sentence as I had felt. It was for my own good and total health. I was happy to get my smile back, plus, the holes are not even visible because they were way in the back of my mouth. The local anesthesia was not a bad idea too. In fact, I was glad that I was not made to sleep. I didn’t feel too weak at the end of the surgery. Most of all, I did not feel pain. The analgesics that I was given were really helpful. I just felt loopy and sleepy. Plus, I am up during weird hours of the night but I was grateful that pain was not in the equation. However, I must say that I didn’t like the gaggle part of my recovery. The salt water just makes my stomach upset for a little bit and I don’t like the taste in my mouth after every meal. But still, I will take that for pain any day, any time.

This is the concluding part of the four-part article. However, I have a surprise for you – a bonus article to show you my extracted teeth. You don’t want to miss it. It is entitled, Bukola Museum of Entertainment: The Bonus Story

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The Consultation, cry baby, I want my teeth

June 30, 2015 By Bukola Oriola

2015-06-22 14.39.59 This is the third part of a four-part article about my experience with oral surgery. In case you missed the first part and second parts, you can read them first,  Dental Death Sentence and  The teeth cleaning, chopping, sharpening tools, scary experience.

I thought my appointment will be to take the teeth out and be over with it. Little did I know that it was just a consultation session. I had been told to come with my insurance card, photo identification, and disc with my dental referral. I was checked in at my appointment and when I got on the dental bed, I was made to watch a video about dental surgery. The video showed the patient what to expect during such a complicated procedure. And, it was scary.

When the dental surgeon finally came in, he said, “Well, I need an approval from your insurance to take out one of the teeth. “Arrrggg! Approval?” I thought to myself, “This nightmare is not about to end any time soon.” I asked how long it would take for the insurance to give an approval. He said, “It could take up to three weeks, but the good news is that, that is less than how long the teeth had been there.” Then I asked if I could take my disc back but he said no. I also asked about having my teeth once extracted. He said, “Well, I don’t have problem giving you your teeth but I may not be the one that will do the extraction when you come in, so it depends on the doctor.” I prayed in my head, “God let whoever the doctor is give me my teeth back.”

I went home waiting for a call but nothing happened for another couple of months. Then, I started noticing pains on my neck, my right ear, plus, it seemed like one side of my head was not function well. I felt continuous burning around the teeth and it was just uncomfortable. I took ibuprofen several times a day. At some point, I called the insurance company and I was asked to tell the clinic to send my request in so that it can be expedited. I did.  Still, nothing happened for another two months.

While I was complaining to one of my grandmas in church, Annette, she said, “You have to squeak the wheel, so call them and let them know you are in pain.” Well, I kept calling for several days, and at last, I was scheduled to go to the urgent clinic. Grandma Annette and her husband, grandpa Jim took me to the appointment.

 

Continue with the story soon in part four entitled, The Surgery: Wasn’t as bad as I thought.

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The teeth cleaning, chopping, sharpening tools, scary experience

June 29, 2015 By Bukola Oriola

2015-06-22 13.34.19 This is the second part of a four-part article about my experience with oral surgery. In case you missed the first part, you can read first, it is entitled, Dental Death Sentence.

The end of this session felt like volcanic eruption in my mouth. However, I must say that my hygienist welcomed me with a smile when I arrived at my teeth cleaning session. However, little did I know that it will be a session that will be almost an hour long. More so, it was a traumatic experience. I don’t remember if she asked me to take off my earrings, however, I asked if I could leave my sunglasses on. Luckily, I had pink eye when I went in. I was not afraid or guilty of going to the clinic with pink eye because I assumed the clinic is the safest place to go with any kind of disease or infection.

Well, lying on my back on the dental bed, the hygienist did not waste time to get to work. She wore her goggles, gloves and took a sit beside my head to get down to work. First, she started using some sharp metal tools to go between the teeth. Then, she came up with more metal tools digging in, and scrapping. She constantly used the suction to get rid of the saliva and blood that oozed out of my mouth. Mind you, she had on a mask too.

She sharpened her tools several times. I was cold dead on that bed. In fact, I don’t know how I managed not to pass out on the bed. It was my first personal visit with a dental hygienist. I had taken my son for dental cleaning several times and never saw them sharpening the tools, so I thought that my teeth must have seen some horrible days to have to go through such rigorous cleaning.

I felt bad as I saw the amount of work this woman had to do on me. I kept apologizing for coming to do over thirty years of work in one day. Trust me. That was how it felt. She said to me, “Don’t worry, I am from Mexico. We don’t go to the dentist except we feel pain, so I understand.” I felt a little relieved hoping that by her statement, she wasn’t feeling upset inside that I was one of those difficult jobs she had to do. At the end of the cleaning, she asked me to make another appointment for a second cleaning. “Second cleaning?” I thought to myself. My teeth felt like I had sands or small stones as I try to close my jaw. “This nightmare is not about to end anytime soon,” I panicked.

Before she let me go, she also took an x-tray. This time, the x-tray was not just biting a piece of gadget. It was getting under a piece of equipment that went over my whole head to take a picture of all my teeth for better view.  It’s called Panoramic X-ray. While she was doing it, she put a sign out on the corridor that said, “Stay off. Radiation.” And, I thought to myself, “This is getting more serious and scary. Radiation?” She also suggested that I should go to the surgeon to have my decayed teeth removed.

I made another appointment to come back at the front desk and left for home. Then I call the University of Minnesota Oral and Maxillofacial to make an appointment. Although, that was not my first call, I had called before but was told that I had to call back the following month. And this was already the following month, so I made sure to call them at 8:00 a.m. just as they were opening up their lines to patients. I was scheduled to come in a month after.

Continue with the story soon in part three entitled, The consultation, cry baby, I want my teeth.

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Dental Death Sentence

June 28, 2015 By Bukola Oriola

My Panoramic X-ray
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When I was diagnosed to have teeth and not just tooth extraction, it was like receiving a death sentence. I had gone for physical and at my appointment, I had told my doctor that I was having tooth ache. She referred me to the dental clinic. At the dental appointment, the female dentist examined my teeth and told me that one of my wisdom teeth did not grow well and that it had affected the tooth beside it. She said the only option was extraction of both teeth. Worse still, she was not competent enough to do such a complicated extraction.

The extraction was a complicated one because the wisdom tooth had fully grown and now sitting on a nerve in my jaw. She said that I would have to make an appointment with the University of Minnesota Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeon to have both extracted. I told her that I didn’t want any of my teeth extracted and asked if there was no other option than losing two teeth at the same time. Her response was not favorable. She prescribed some antibiotics and analgesic, sending me home to go decided on what I wanted to do.

This was about a year ago. I took my medicines and the pain subsided. I was praying hard to get healed. I kept telling myself, “I don’t want to lose my teeth.” I told some friends and a friend opened her mouth to show me how her gum is now looking like that of a baby yet to teeth after a tooth had been extracted. Then she added, “I am fine now and happy. I don’t care there is no tooth there because I don’t feel pain anymore.” Rather than convincing me, my fear grew worse. In fact, I can still see her “baby-like” gum as I write this piece.

In November of last year I returned to the dentist office. This time, I had a male dentist attended to me. He repeated the same diagnosis I had. In fact, before the doctor came in, the nurse who checked me in was surprised that I still had the teeth in my mouth after her examination. An x-tray had been taken, then, the doctor explained what was in the x-tray. He said, he couldn’t extract the teeth too. I had to go to a surgeon to get it out because, “The wisdom tooth is sitting on a nerve.” The he continued by aggravating my fear by saying, “If I try to do it, you could lose all your teeth and your lips.” Pointing to something that looked like a white line on the black and white picture, he said, “This nerve controls your teeth and lips, taking the wisdom teeth out improperly can damage your whole teeth and lips, so you need to see a surgeon who specializes in taking out such complicated tooth.”

At that point, I knew my faith was nowhere to be found. It was not little. It was lost. At that point too, I was already suffering from such a bath breath that I inconvenient people around me. So, he ordered a teeth cleaning session with the hygienist. I made an appointment and went in for my teeth cleaning.

Continue with the story soon in part two entitled, The Teeth Cleaning, Chopping, sharpening tools, scary experience.

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Another Taste for Hope Fundraiser

June 1, 2015 By Bukola Oriola

1492546_10152336192951973_2167904550608127640_o It seemed like it was only yesterday that we had The Enitan Story’s 1st Annual Fundraiser event. The event name, Taste for Hope came about with the help of our former board secretary Emily Wise.

I remembered sitting in her office one after in May or June after we had received the tax exempt determination letter of the organization from the Internal Revenue Service (IRS). As we were talking about how to raise money for the organization to provide services to victims and survivors of human trafficking and domestic abuse, she said, I used to attend an event where they just provide little items for tasting. It is usually filled with vendors and we can do the same.”

I thought that was a creative idea, so I opted in. Then we began to think of a name. We went through a list of fundraising names that we could remember and bam! Taste for Hope appeared like the shinning star in the sky.

One more thing, we were excited but we still need to bring it to the board for approval. Luckily, the board agreed and we started working hard to put the event together.

I must confess that it was not as easy as I thought it was going to be. Organizing a fundraising event can be daunting if you don’t know how to go about it.

Last year, it was a lot of leg work. However, we have learned from our past and we are doing things slightly different this year. We will see how it turned out at the end.

I hope that you can join us for the 2nd Annual Taste for Hope Fundraiser. You can get your ticket online or offline. To buy an individual or group ticket online, please go to The Enitan Story’s ticket page.

We are adding more food vendors to the the list. Last year, the guests tasted over 10 different kinds of food from three of the four regions of the world. So, don’t miss it, get your tickets now.

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