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What May Be “Slave Labor Poison”

January 5, 2014 By Bukola Oriola

Bukola Oriola presenting at Calvary Church, Roseville, Minnesota: Credit: Stephanie Page
Bukola Oriola presenting at Calvary Church, Roseville, Minnesota

Happy New Year! Can you believe that a new year has rolled out already? In fact, we have spent almost five days because today is the fifth of January and the fifth day in the year 2014. I hope you had a good year last year. I also hope that you will enjoy a better year this year.

I started my public presentation for the year today at Calvary Church in Roseville, Minnesota. There were two groups in two sessions during the Adult Sunday School. The second group tripled the first, it increased from seven to twenty-one. I presented with Stephanie Page, founder of Stories Cafe, a non-profit organization connecting non-profits and helping victims of human trafficking around the world.

Page educated the groups about the statistics and data available on human trafficking while I used my story to enlighten the crowd about one of the various forms that human trafficking can occur. While Page was presenting, she talked about “slave labor poison” when her husband had to get candy from the local store, when she didn’t have enough time to order chocolate from fair trade, in order to avoid buying products made by labor victims of human trafficking. She held her stomach with her right hand, squeezed her face, and bent, as she said”I told my husband, that is slave labor poison.”

She encouraged the participants to think about how the demand for cheap products has contributed

Bukola Oriola presenting at Calvary Church, Roseville, Minnesota, Credit: Stephanie Page
Bukola Oriola presenting at Calvary Church, Roseville, Minnesota, Credit: Stephanie Page

to labor trafficking in other countries, where US companies go to manufacture products for less. Think about it… do you know if the clothes you wear were produced by labor trafficked victims? What about the food, and many other products?

It is very important for us all to start thinking, educating, and fighting human trafficking of all forms among our community locally, nationally, and internationally.

You can join the group any Sunday this month at 9:30 a.m. or 10:30 a.m., as Page continues her series of teaching on human trafficking for human trafficking awareness month.

Thanks for reading. Please, leave your comments below or send me an email.

Bye for now, until next time.

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Brisbin Park Gets a Face Lift

October 23, 2013 By Bukola Oriola

Brisbin Park
Brisbin Park

When we moved into our apartment from the Alexandra House shelter for battered women in 2008, we received a bonus package with the apartment – a public park. My son, Samuel was only fifteen months old. He was lucky because the park was just right there to play and burn off some of his toddler energy. One of the advocates at the shelter, Heidi, had said to me, “Bukola, you are going to love the apartment. There is a park right by it.”  I did not understand what she meant by “There is a park right by it.” I couldn’t imagine having a public park that almost seemed like a private one because of its closeness to our apartment. Well, Heidi was right! Brisbin Park sits right there. There is no need to cross the roads or avoid vehicles to get into the park. It resides right there by our apartment.

Luckily, we moved in during the summer, so there was still a lot of time to enjoy the swings, slides, and other equipment that filled the park. Brisbin Park is more like a cozy little park for the neighborhood. In front of it is a big field where kids come to play baseball, soccer, or some other games for training. Behind Brisbin Park is a white apartment complex fenced with barbed wires. On the left hand side of it is an open space and trail that cuts across some single family homes; on the right hand side of Brisbin Park is a small space with a big tree followed by our apartment. As a result, I could watch my son play at the park when he became a little bit older from our living room. For the past five years, children from the surrounding neighborhood, comprising families from Anoka and Coon Rapids cities, mingle and enjoy playing together at Brisbin Park until recently. Aside from the play equipment, the tornado siren is a permanent resident on a pole that looks like the electricity pole at Brisbin Park. In addition, there are benches with back rest for visitors sitting on two sides, while there are two benches with no back rest with a table sandwiched between them on the other side of the park. They are all made from iron and painted blue. The basket like design was perfect for draining rain and melting snow.

Brisbin Park
Brisbin Park

This summer, the kids’ enjoyment of Brisbin Park was interrupted like a power outage! There was neither any announcement nor warning that the park was going to be renovated. All of a sudden, we came home one afternoon and saw that the park had been dug out and barricaded with the yellow caution “police tape.” Some construction workers wearing lemon green jacket were working on the park. “What!” My son, Sam exclaimed in surprise. “We will not be able to play at the paarrrrrrrrrrrk,” he said with his lips spread apart. Pretending as if I did not see what he saw, I asked, “Why?” He replied, pointing to the park, “Loooook, there are men working on the paaarrrrrrrk.” Meanwhile, it took two months to renovate the park but it felt like two years. My son was always checking to see if the park was done. As a matter of fact, he lost his patience at some point. He went to the park. Then Joe came. Joe is a friend and male authority figure for Sam. He had driven three hours from Trempleau, Wisconsin to spend the weekend with us. We were not home when he arrived, so he waited patiently in his car at the parking lot in front of our apartment. When Sam and I alighted from my car to greet him, he said to me, “What’s up with the park?” “Well, what does it look like they are doing to the park?” I responded. However, before he gave me an answer, I answered my own question with “they are fixing it.” “Oh!” He said and his jaw dropped, his knees bent, and his hands dangled in the air. “But it’s good,” I said, adding, “The kids are going to have a brand new park.” Then he turned to Sam to ask, “So, how does Sam feel, not playing at the park?” Sam answered with disappointment, “I don’t get to play with my friends because they are working on the park.” He looked sad, his face dropped as he walked to the front door with his hands in his sweat shirt pocket.

Brisbin Park
Brisbin Park

Apparently, Sam was not the only one itching to get his playground back. Many other kids from the neighborhood were also interested in playing again before the weather took away the permission. I saw some of them with their parents at the park during the reconstruction. As soon as the caution tape was taken down, kids trotted into the park little by little to play while the renovation was still taking place. I guess their actions tell the workers that they need to expedite action and vacate the kids’ territory. It was like a silent war. The workers seemed to understand the kids’ actions, so they worked as hard as they could to complete the renovation.

Meanwhile, Brisbin Park is one of the fifteen parks and recreation centers in Anoka City. It is classified as a neighborhood park in the Anoka City parks’ codes and it enjoys 2.7 acres of land. Even though, it does not have grills, it affords family members to still enjoy some picnic time at the park. There is a mobile toilet on the site, giving room for spending more time at the park. The reconstruction of the park gave it a brand new look. No equipment was replaced, no equipment was added, just a facelift.

At last! A concrete was built around the playground to form almost, but not exactly square, black dirt filled the

Sam is happy to get his park back
Sam is happy to get his park back

outer side of it, and a truck load of mulch was spread inside the play area. Brisbin Park received a brand new face. The blue park seats shone like brand new with the repaint. The metal part of the slide that held the stairs enjoyed its share of a new blue paint. The swing also took part in the new paint. Watching from afar, I saw a brand new park for the kids. A day after the workers finished their work at the park, a day care provider came with their kids to play early in the morning. Some kids were swinging, some sliding, and others just running around in the playground. Brisbin Park got a face lift.

 

PS: Thanks for reading. This is one of my assignments from my English Creative Non Fiction Writing Class.

Kindly leave your comments below.

Bye for now, until next time.

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What To Do When You Suspect Something Is Wrong

September 22, 2013 By Bukola Oriola

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Bukola’s table at the UMC women’s event

I was at the Big Waters United Methodist Women fall gathering yesterday in Milaca to share my story ans a victim of human trafficking. The vent was successful, they room was filled with women from various United Methodist Church. They were grateful that I shared a story that opened their eyes about the issue of human trafficking. I took several questions at the end of my presentation. Some questions and comments came as one on one. In fact, I was very happy when one of the women told me she was knitting some things for Alexandra House. In addition, my local congregation, United Methodist Church of Anoka adopted Alexandra House as the ministry of the month where donations are taken to be sent to Alexandra House.

I had a grandmother who was worried about her daughter and granddaughters. She feared that they are being sold for sex in Wisconsin. I said to her “you know, there is help for them.” But she said they don’t tell her anything and the grandchildren are in their twenties now. She suspects something is not right. She speculates that they are being sold for sex but did not know how to help them. I think she also mentioned a great-granddaughter who is eight years old. But she said that the social worker is involved with her. I am still feeling her pain as I write this piece. What do you do when you find yourself in this kind of situation? The answer is TALK TO SOMEBODY. Connect with a local organization where you can be couched on how to get the person or people you suspect are in danger to talk to you, especially when they are family members. You can also invite them to events. It is much easier when a victim can identify him or herself as a victim to reach out for help.

Please, send in your questions and comments.

Bye for now. Until next time.

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Sam Gets a Seat in a College Classroom

September 2, 2013 By Bukola Oriola

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Sam watching a classroom show on Netflix

As a single mom, one of the challenges I face is getting a babysitter sometimes for my son, Sam. School resumed last week and I have one seated class on Tuesdays and Thursdays – Women in Global Perspective. Meanwhile, my son’s school has until tomorrow, a day after Labor Day, to resume. One of my friends, Angela has been helping to babysit him; however, she was busy last Tuesday and Thursday, plus, my schedule for both days were crazy that I could not have taken him to her for help anyway.

So, I decided to go to class with him. I was not just going to go in with a kid and never cared if my professor was okay with it – I was really hoping that the professor will have no problem with it. My heart skipped a little. When we arrived at the campus, I was searching for the classroom but ended in a wrong room that has the same room number. It was a staff’s office. One of the ladies in the room offered to help. She asked “are you looking for something? Can we help you?”  It was almost 10 minutes to 11:00 Am when class starts. I replied, somewhat confused, “yes,” then I told her the room number. She said “it’s not here but I can help you find the room. It is over by Nursing and Business.” She turned to Sam and said “are you going to Kindergarten or First Grade?” Sam was shy to respond, so I cooed him to reply. He said: “First Grade.”

The lady turned to me and said, “we don’t want you to be late for class, so we better get there fast.” She continued, “I know the kids are yet to resume.” And, I said, “yes, they don’t resume until next week. I hope it is okay to have him in class.” She replied, “he should be fine.” At this time we were already at the crowded Nursing Department and she pointed the corridor where the class is situated to me. I thanked her and went to look for the room number.

For a few minutes, I was greeting almost every student that entered the class while standing at the door with Sam, especially those who dressed formally and almost looked like an instructor. After a while, I decided to reserve a spot at the back, as I noticed the class is a large one and the seats were filling up quickly. I had my laptop and had Sam watch Netflix with headphones.

Dr. Zara, she likes to be called by her name, entered the class at 11:01 AM and greeted. I gave her few minutes to settle and rushed to the front, as if I was going to report myself for committing a crime, and told her that I had a child with me. Her response was warm and kind; using her hands as she talked, she said”don’t worry about it” with a nod, she added, “you can bring him any time.” I heaved a sigh. I thanked God in my mind and went back to my seat. Before the end of class, she told us that we will be having permanent seat in class until the end of the semester. “This will help me to know you by name,” she explained. She even came to speak with Sam at the back. She wanted to meet him. Another classmate who said she has an older son commended Sam for being a good boy during class. She said “you can’t even tell there was a kid in the class.” Turning to me she said,’ I always like to commend when a child is well behaved. It shows the parents is doing a good job.” I responded, “thank you.” and was grateful for the nice comment.

On our return by Thursday, the professor already had seating sheet. She invited everybody to the front to write down his or her name. Then she beckoned me to bring Sam to the front to write his name on the seating sheet. So, Sam entered a college classroom seating. He starts school tomorrow but will be going to class with me whenever his school was closed.

Do you have any interesting story with your kids? Please share it right here. I will love to hear it.

Thanks for reading. Until next time.

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Seeing Through the Eyes of a Mentally-ill Person

September 2, 2013 By Bukola Oriola

Cover of Madness: A Bipolar Life by Marya Hornbacher
Cover of Madness: A Bipolar Life by Marya Hornbacher

If you have not read any book about mental illness, I will recommend this personal story book entitled Madness: A Bipolar Life. It is one of the recommended readings for my Creative Non-Fiction Writing class.  After reading the first part of the book, I posted the writings below in the General Comment Section of the D2L (Desire To Learn – a section used by instructors and students for class activities in the United States):

Marya Hornbacher goes full circle in Part 1 of “Madness: A Bipolar Life” by starting from the cutting incident that leads her into the emergency room, and bringing us back to the same point after shedding lights on her life as a person suffering from mental illness.

It is a mouth full. She creates a vivid mental picture in her writing, uses repetition for emphasis, even as she delves into this inherited disease that has no cure. She uses adjectives to describe her mental and emotional feelings. She succeeds in educating the reader about the intricacies of this illness with her day and night struggles in a world where there are neither proper diagnosis nor proper treatment for her condition.

I am learning and hopes to learn more about the life of a Bipolar in my quest as a creative non-fiction writer.

Thank you Professor Kysar for recommending this book.

Bukola

Thanks for reading. I hope you can get this book and learn about mental disorder, perhaps, to be able to better understand someone with this condition.

Bye for now, until next time.

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