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Congratulating Kehinde Oluremi Banwo

July 6, 2016 By Bukola Oriola

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I am writing this post to congratulate Kehinde Oluremi Banwo on his award as one of the recipients of the 2016 Trafficking in Persons Hero. Banwo was awarded recently at the launch of the 2016 Trafficking in Persons Report by the U.S. Department of States. Banwo is the founder of an NGO in Russia who helps victims of sex trafficking in Russia return to their home country.

I connected with Banwo and was introduced to some of his efforts when he signed up to my mailing list and became an active member on the list. Sometimes, Banwo responded to my emails to the group. I received his first email on February 7, 2016 after sending out an email with the title, “I have Just been thinking….” His response showed someone working on the issue in Russia and willing to collaborate with other individuals and organizations to combat this crime in Russia.

His email read:

Dear Bukola,

I am delighted to read your story and share your experience in assisting and empowering human traffic victims. I am following up your activities to be able to tap from your teaching on how to assist human traffic victims in getting them freedom and further empower them to start new life. I am in Russia where we have over 15 000 victims in modern day sex slavery trafficked from developing African countries, Asia and Cuba. I am focused on Nigerian girls brought mostly from Edo States, who on arrival discovered the truth of life and want to get freedom or liberated from their exploiters and probably return home to start a new life.  The challenges are great and from your story, I learnt some lessons and understanding of technical approach to some of these problems. I would want to  partner with your foundation on how to empower ex victims on returning back home. Also see if we can work a preventive model stooping the the young ones from been entrapped into human trafficking or sex slavery, such as your education program or seminars at the grass root level in Nigeria or in those countries where victims are been captured into slavery.

I hope to hear from you soonest,

Kenny

I replied to the email and I have since, received other emails from Banwo. One of his emails revealed the story of a victim named Blessing, who was thrown down from a four storey building after being sold for sex.  After being rescued, Blessing was deported to Nigeria on a wheel chair, as the Russian government was allegedly not supportive in helping survivors get adequate services. I was devastated about this woman’s story and always thought about her and her well being. I was happy when Banwo told me in a telephone conversation when he came to the U.S. to receive his award that Blessing is recuperating and now doing well after getting medical attention in Nigeria.

Banwo was elated for his award when he sent an email to his colleagues and friends stating, “I am happy to inform you that the US TIP for 2016 was released in Washington DC by the state department. I have been honored as one of the 8 Heros of the year 2016 in fighting against human traffic worldwide.” I was impressed when he continued further stating, “I received the award yesterday and dedicate it to all survivals rescued and assisted from Sex slavery in Russia.”

Indeed, Banwo is one of the many advocates who cared about the clients that they provide services to in the human trafficking movement.

Once again, congratulations Kehinde Oluremi Banwo. I look forward to working with you in the future.

To read the 2016 TIP Report, click here.

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The giraffe and a turtle

July 5, 2016 By Bukola Oriola

Giraffe and turtle

The giraffe and a turtle is a story that I am drawing from personal experience. I am writing this story with the hope of helping someone, especially a victim of human trafficking or domestic violence.

In many instances, victims do not speak out because of the fear of being blamed or judged. When I decided to put my face to my story, I knew that I was going to be blamed and judged. Considering the community that I came from, it is even worse to speak up. There is so much more that I want to say, but I will reserve for my upcoming book, A Living Label. Become an Insider if you want to read more directly from the book before it launches in the fall.

However, I defied the opposition. I took a step that many will not take. And, I took the shame for many who have gone through similar experience but are not willing to declare publicly because of stigma. In fact, stigma is only one part of the agony that a survivor will have to live with. Subtle threats, unspoken threats, and false accusations are a few of other dilemma that a survivor like me live with in my community. Sometimes, I wonder whether I can call certain people around me friends or family members as a result of insensitive comments and ignorance.

Few days ago, a friend encouraged me with a YouTube video from Bishop T.D. Jakes. In the video, Bishop Jakes used the analogy of the turtle and the giraffe to provide encouragement. I must confess that the video was timely. I was encouraged and even used it as a topic in a virtual support group that I host on Facebook yesterday morning.

I have listened to the message by watching the video several times. I also found shorter versions of the video, which I watched. I thought that I could encourage someone else with this message. Hence, the reason for this article.

As a way of paying it forward, I will like to encourage you today, if you feel blamed and accused unjustly. Just like Bishop Jakes suggested, perceive of yourself as a giraffe and your accusers as the turtle. The giraffe eats on the trees while the turtle eats on the floor. See yourself rising above your tragedy. Seek for help among people that will provide solace to you.

Interesting facts about the giraffe and turtle

I did a Google search on giraffe and turtle. I stumbled upon interesting facts about the giraffe. In fact, I learned that the giraffe is the tallest mammal on earth. More so, a baby giraffe is taller than an adult human being.

My findings became more fascinating when I learned that a baby giraffe can run very fast only 10 hours after birth. The turtle on the other hand has been around for over 200 million years, however, it can neither run as fast as the giraffe nor grow taller than a human being.

Bishop Jake’s video was his own personal experience with accusers. Without giving away the story, I will like to share the video below.

If you have an experience or comment you want to share, kindly share it below.

Thanks for reading. I hope to talk to you again through my blogs. If you have questions, comments or suggestions, please, send me a note – fill out the contact form. I want to hear from you. You can also get my recent posts by signing up to receive updates.

Bye for now, until next time.

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Healing words of encouragement

July 4, 2016 By Bukola Oriola

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Healing words of encouragement from a poet has been the inspiration on Monday Motivation with Bukola this morning on Google Hangouts on Air Live broadcast.

Founder of Healing Words with Yvette, Yvette Toko said that you can use healing words in various circumstances beyond physical health, According to her, you can use your words for healing in other areas of life such as in your finances.

Toko emphasized the importance of “knowing your reason why” to be motivated to use positive words for healing on any area of your life or that of your loved ones.

Sharing a personal experience, Toko explained how positive profession was a tool she used to help revive her unconscious mother when her mother was on the hospital bed. Toko is a writer and a poet. She shared one of her short poetry, entitled Acceptance on the show.

Too high for the mountains

Too low for the valleys

I found solace in the arms of an invitation

You can connect with Toko through her literary works.

For the Love of Cameroon: A small book that gives a glimpse of culture, travel, destination, and my adventures in Cameroon central Africa.

Breath, Eyes, Memory in Me: A book of poems containing poetic expressions from the heart of the author inspired from life, love and a love of words.

Wedding Quotes of Inspiration: A wedding book filled with quotes to inspire married couples.

Yvette Toko is an author, a wife, mother, and teacher. You can watch a replay of the broadcast below.

Thanks for reading. I hope to talk to you again through my blogs. If you have questions, comments or suggestions, please, send me a note – fill out the contact form. I want to hear from you. You can also get my recent posts by signing up to receive updates.

Bye for now, until next time.

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Monday Motivation with Bukola Featuring Yvette

July 4, 2016 By Bukola Oriola

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Another edition of Monday Motivation with Bukola is only few hours away. To celebrate the 4th of July, I will be bringing Yvette Toko, founder of Healing Words with Yvette back Live on Google Hangouts on Air.

I hope you are all having a great 4th of July celebration. It’s fireworks night and it doesn’t seem like we will be getting much sleep as I can still hear the sound of fireworks in my neighborhood.

Yvette Toko is an author, a wife, mother, and teacher. Yvette is the founder of Healing words with Yvette and she will be talking about “How to use our words for healing” – healing in our health, money, relationship, business, winning during challenges or setbacks.

Yvette believes in the power of words to heal. She uses words in all forms to encourage, uplift and inspire herself and others. Her most important roles are being a wife, mother, teacher and writer.

Get Yvette’s book via this link http://www.lulu.com/shop/yvette-r-toko/for-the-love-of-cameroon/paperback/product-22533662.html

Monday Motivation with Bukola Featuring Yvette

You can join Live at 5:30 AM CST by clicking on the video below. You can also watch directly on Google Plus or YouTube.

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Monday Motivation with Bukola is an inspirational Live Broadcast on Google Hangouts on Air focusing on women empowerment, beauty, health, money, culture, entertainment, and advocacy. To be featured on the show as a guest or sponsor, send an email to info@bukolaoriola.com.

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SMART goals for networking

June 28, 2016 By Bukola Oriola

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Networking guru, DeShondra Brown, founder of enRich Solo, has suggested the need to have SMART goals for networking. She made this declaration last night on Monday Motivation with Bukola during a Live broadcast on Google Hangouts on Air. According to Brown, 80 per cent of job opportunities are secured through network while only 20 per cent are secured through advertisements.

Brown emphasized the need to build specific, measurable and attainable networking goals to  be able to take advantage of various opportunities in our career, professional, and personal life. She noted that we need to building relationships that offers mutual benefits. In going into new relationships, the networking guru encouraged us to have something to offer in other to benefit from the relationships that we are going into. She frowns against just taking from relationships rather than giving and taking.

She also cautioned against taking a “no” response negatively. Rather, she encouraged us to accept a “no” response in a positive feedback that could result in our heart desire in the future. Sharing her personal experience, the double bachelor’s degree holder stated that she was recently hired as an adjunct professor at the same university where she had been previously rejected.

Set SMART goals for Networking: Work the Net

In providing strategies to building key relationships, Brown recently launched a digital Networking course called Work the Net. According to Brown, “the course to help you to Review, Reveal and Revive your Networking skills.” She added, “A key component to obtaining visions and goals is through building lucrative relationships and this course will help you to do just that once you have completed the course.”

An opportunity for survivors

As a survivor of human trafficking or domestic violence, you could use this skill as an opportunity for you to project yourself as a subject matter expert in your community. You might also use it as a way to find the right contacts to leverage your career opportunities in other fields of your choice.

You can enroll for the course on her website, Work the Net  or just click the link http://bit.ly/1UD7J2w or https://enrich-solo.thinkific.com/courses/work-the-net

You can also contact DeShondra Brown at enrichsolollc@gmail.com.

What the full video below.

Thanks for reading. I hope to talk to you again through my blogs. If you have questions, comments or suggestions, please, send me a note – fill out the contact form. I want to hear from you. You can also get my recent posts by signing up to receive updates.

Bye for now, until next time.

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